...since I last blogged. Heck, it's almost a week since the previous post!
Let's see if I can get you caught up with the latest goings-on here.
This weekend, Jessi was feeling enough cabin fever that we hopped in the car and drove up to Tacoma to spend some time with my family while they watched the Seahawks/Redskins playoff game (the first football game I've watched since leaving Wisconsin). That was Saturday. (weigh-in at Weight Watchers had us both showing a gain)
Sunday, Jessi started doing some research on wedding ideas... and I swear, at the rate things are going, I just may suffer a psychotic break from it all!
Well, not really. What's really getting to me is the additions to the original plans... additions which will likely cost more than we'd imagined (we haven't actually written up a budget, which we probably should have). She was changing her mind back and forth as she went about what I would wear -- at one point, she wanted me to be wearing a light-colored suit!
Now, I've got nothing against suits per se... although I haven't worn one since my interview for my job at the newspaper (and that suit would obviously no longer fit me anyway). The thing is... I don't care for light-colored suits at all. No matter what color it's a shade of, bright colors are not for me. If I'm going to wear a suit, it'll be a classic Navy Blue, like the too-large one that's hanging in the closet (which I should really get dry cleaned, repaired, and then put up on eBay for someone else to wear). And honestly, I see no point in spending $200-$300 or more on a suit that I might --
might -- wear once a year, tops. After all, even when I could fit in my suit, I pretty much wore it once a year, at the company Christmas party for the place I worked for in Wisconsin (and after that, for interviews only).
If you're a regular reader, you know I stress out a bit over money, and have had way too many times when money was very tight -- so much so, that if I hadn't been enjoying some success on eBay (and there are some new auctions up now, by the by -- search for seller jon8229 for good deals on dog collars and leashes, loose DC Direct figures, trade paperbacks, and so on), we would've been SOL for eating a few times!
Anyway... like I said, I don't see the point in spending money on a suit. I'm much happier with the final (well, final so far) idea, which is that I'd wear khaki pants and a white shirt. I probably wouldn't wear those that much more often, but it's a heckuva lot cheaper!
Jessi's still trying to figure out what she wants for other aspects of the wedding. The ceremony itself, which I'd originally envisioned as being fairly short, is getting a bit more deluxe -- she'd like to have music there, and there'll be a bunch of decorations there, too.
I'm not sure how the music will work -- heck, we're going to need some kind of portable PA system as it is -- because of the acoustics where the ceremony will be. I may have mentioned the park we'll have the wedding at? Looking at it from the side... well, here's a crude rendering for you to check out:

The flat area is where the wedding will take place. Now, I'm no acoustics expert, but given that the water in that crude drawing is the Puget Sound, I'm guessing that any amplified sound will end up going out over the water for the most part, and it'll be difficult for people to hear. There's just not much to bounce the sound from to contain it.
But that's just my opinion, I could be wrong.
I'm not even sure what music will be playing for the ceremony. Jessi was hoping one of my nieces or my nephew might be able to play something for us, but none of them really keep up with their musical instruments that much. I don't know if she knows anyone who does play an instrument.
We were reviewing a few of the Friends episodes that had weddings (although not all of them)... and some of them did have some very nice ideas. OK, I am biased -- the ones I liked the most were ones that used Beatles songs, such as "And I Love Her." (and by the by -- has anyone other than me ever noticed that the characters on Friends show a knowledge of pop culture that doesn't accurately reflect their ages? But I digress) In the instance of that song -- and I forget whose wedding it was for -- there was a string quartet playing the song, so far as I remember.
And so we're back to finding someone to play, and also probably paying them. I'll keep you guys posted on that aspect of things.
On the upside, it looks like while I won't be making the wedding invitations (which is bizarre to me -- I mean, I am a graphics designer, I have all the software and fonts to do that, but a friend of hers wants to do them), I will be making the wedding cake... once we decide what we're doing there.
My idea for the wedding cake is to do a multi-tiered one, with each tier on a separate level (not stacked like traditional cakes), where the top tier is an actual small wedding cake, and then the tiers below that would instead be individual servings of a variety of different desserts, such as low-fat brownies, fruit cups, and so forth, so people would have a choice (and we don't have to worry about indivdual diet requirements).
Anyway, there's lots more on my mind, but I've run out of time to post it this morning, so I'll post more tonight!
Jon